Confident & Free Speakers Announced!! 🎉🎉

These are the speakers & panelists for the first annual Confident & Free Event in Columbus,Ohio!

Erin Lamb, Laurie Coffman, Dr. Sandra Weppler, Hilary Lynne, Patti Navis Hathaway, Kristin Reeg, Shannon Hair Hodges, Jeana Borkholder, and Lynn Jones.

There will be three keynote speakers (top row), three activation speakers (middle row), and additional panelists (last row). Worship will be led by Lanita and CJ Gaul. They are absolutely wonderful prophetic worshippers. Prophetic Art will be done by Velma Butler.

We will have 2 panel discussions; One focuses on breaking out of limiting beliefs/legalism/religious mindsets. The other focuses on hearing from God, testing what you hear, true seer gifting, discernment, and growing in the prophetic.

Excited to give these ladies an opportunity to share their heart and experiences with growing in godly confidence and freedom. It’s a journey with Jesus.

Hope you join us for prophetic worship, soaking time, teaching, activation (you get to do something-not just watch), mentoring, Q/A time, and hear about how God is transforming the world through ordinary people called to extraordinary things!!

We all get to play as John Wimber would say.

We will also have areas where you can learn more about ending human trafficking and get involved in missions.

Men are welcome & encouraged to attend!!

Right now registration is discounted with an early bird rate of $89.

You may register at https://www.empowered-free.com/book-online.

You may also read speaker and band bio’s via the link above.

Warmly,

Erin Lamb

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Godly Pursuit vs Selfish Pursuit

Every Pursuit is Not Rooted in God Love

I have encountered numerous women in my lifetime who felt so special for being pursued. Yet the man pursued them as a game, out of loneliness, selfishness, lust, greed, to check a box, to cause harm. Women can pursue too…women are sometimes taught in culture that having a man increases their value or not being married or having children is a sign of life failure. It’s untrue, yet culture contains many things that simply aren’t true. Stalkers are pursuers too…they simply don’t possess the right motivations.

God tells us to pursue wisdom. God tells us to investigate fruit (Matthew 7:15-20). I have been pursued by people, not just men, for their selfish gain. They were not interested in what God was speaking to me or calling me to do. They saw something they thought they wanted and saught to convince me to go along with the agenda. God tells us not to pursue selfish agendas.

Instead of being motivated by selfish ambition or vanity, each of you should, in humility, be moved to treat one another as more important than yourself,~Phil 2:3.

God is not selfish. When God pursues us, our best interests are taken into consideration. When God presents a plan or His agenda, our best interests and the best interests of others are taken into consideration.

I am going to throw out a radical statement. God does not need our worship or devotion. Angels surround the throne of God and worship God continually (Revelation 7:11, Isaiah 6). God invites us into worship not just because He alone is worthy of it, but because worship impacts us in a powerful way. We become like the gods we worship. God alone is good. Even prayer benefits us more than it does God. God is not ego driven; love is God’s persistent motivation.

It can be affirming to be pursued. Yet ask the question, why is this person pursuing me? What is the fruit of their life? Or why am I pursuing this person? God what are my true intentions? Help me to pursue to love as you love.

This is not just for dating. Think about business relationships, ministry relationships, friendships. Is the person coming to the table to add value or with containers to take away? We love tupperware people, we do not allow them to be consistent consumers in our lives. There needs to be balance. Ministering to people is pouring out expecting nothing in return. Godly love involves some reciprocation. God does expect us to love Him in return. It is a lie God desires nothing from us. You may read this in the following verses: Matthew 22:37, 1 Corinthians 6:19, Luke 6:46, John 14:15.

I am inclined to tell you the story of an old hoarder colleague. She loved to go to buffets. The main purpose was to load up her purse. I kid you not she would have a purse full of egg rolls, and chicken wings. She did not frequent buffets because she liked the restaurant per say. She went to load up her purse, what she considered free food. She was not poor in reality. She suffered from scarcity mentality, hoarding, and greed. The restaurant may think, “Oh she loves this place.” Nope, she loves benefiting from this place. If she truly loved the restaurant and the owners, she would abide by their guidelines of not carry out from the buffet. She would not fill her purse full of items. She would think about what is best for the owners not just herself.

God encourages us and invites us into a lifestyle of love. Love thinks of what is best for everyone, not just one person. Love is not selfish, greedy, one sided, nor pursues under false pretenses. God also commits to who He pursues. There is loyalty there. God is not simply pursuing to ditch you later.

Love in Christ,

Erin Lamb

Insecurity is Not Humility

Humility is a right assessment of oneself in relation to God. It is not self abasement nor “I am but a wretched worm.” It is not arrogance, “I am better than others.”

Jesus possessed humility and confidence. He could get low and wash feet. He could also stand in the synagogue and declare the words of Isaiah 61. He stated, “Today this scripture is fulfilled.” He stood bold and confident against the Pharisees. He did not shrink back and claim false humility.

The truth is, Jesus knew who He was in relation to the Father. When He prayed, it was with sincere confidence that God the Father heard His plea. Jesus is our model. Jesus is perfect theology.

I am pursuing doing a two day Confident & Free event because I believe God is raising up a company of believers who know who He is and know who they are in Him.

In Christ we are not less than nor better than; we are redeemed children of God. We are joint heirs. We are His workmanship created for His glory. Insecurity brings no glory to God! It is the flip side of pride.

False humility brings no glory to God, “Let’s pretend we are not who God says we are so others think we are humble.” God wants to free us of agreement with the devil. The devil approached Jesus and said, “If you are the Son of God.” Jesus knew who He was and responded in confidence, “It is written.”

Speakers for the Confident & Free Event will be announced this month! Whooohoooo! Instead of people coming to listen to me speak at 3-4 sessions a day for 2 days, I wanted to give others a chance to share their experiences with gaining godly confidence and freedom.

God has continued to press into my heart a need for people to see themselves as He does; not arrogant and not insecure. I sense and often see confusion over what it means to be confident and deal with numerous people in soul healing sessions who hate themselves, hide, feel bad about who they are, or a few have grandiose ideas about who they are. God intends we live in balance, and love ourselves in healthy ways. We love our neighbor AS we love ourselves.

We will have 7-8 speakers, 7 sessions, 2 panel discussions (you can ask questions), and a wonderful/intimate prophetic worship team.

The focus of day 1 is FREEDOM. Let’s break out of legalism, limiting mindsets, tear down religious strongholds, get the soul and body healed, dream BIGGER with God. I am carving out space for extended ministry time. Need healing, come! Our prayer teams would love to pray for your soul or body healing.

Day 2 is focused on confidence. What does it mean to be confident? Is confidence arrogance? What does it mean to be loving and bold? We want to talk about how to have an intimate relationship with God, hear and test His voice, step out of the boat with Jesus, properly understand and use authority, and share real testimonies of overcoming with Jesus.

The plan is to pour into those who attend. The mission is love. The mission is Jesus. The mission is getting people activated to move beyond just going to listen to someone else speak and do the works of Jesus. The works of Jesus are not just for some people or a select elite. It’s for every person who places their faith in Him!

In Christ you can see the sick healed!

In Christ you can share and preach the Gospel!

In Christ you can see people delivered from tormenting spirits!

In Christ you can love the broken!

In Christ you can make disciples!!

You can! You can! Oh yes you can!!

Jesus said, “You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you.” We, those who follow and abide in Jesus, have empowerment by God to do even GREATER! If you don’t know Jesus, come, we would LOVE to share who He is and how much He loves you.

I hope you join us for two days of jam packed teaching, activations (you get to participate-not just watch us do the stuff), worship, laughter, giveaways, ministry time, prayer, equipping, mentoring, and hopefully answering some questions you may have!!

Come party with us for 2 full days and invite some friends. Right now tickets are discounted to $89. That is roughly $10-12 a session. We also don’t plan on taking up offerings-people can donate to a charity represented there or speaker, yet I won’t be passing the plate to cover event costs. You will also have an opportunity to hear about human trafficking and support being part of the solution.

  • When is it? May 17 and 18, 2019
    • Sessions: 9 am, 2 pm, and 7 pm (mid day sessions have more than one speaker)
    • Where is it? 1055 McNaughten Road, Columbus Ohio 43213
  • Use the coupon code: EarlyBird
    • When should you sign up: As soon as possible. Seats are limited and we are already at 18% capacity with registration opening January 1.
    • Who’s Invited: Everyone (yet we will not have childcare for this event). Come and bring your teenager or preteen.

    Godly confidence is for everyone!!

    Love,

    Erin Lamb

    Founder/Owner/CEO of Lamb Enterprises LLC

    (Authoring, Publishing, Events, Masterclasses, Mentoring, Soul Health, and Wellness)

    #Confidence #ConfidentandFree #JointheParty

    You’re Invited & Happy New Year!!🎉🎉🎉

    Happy New Year! 🎉🎉🎉

    Are you excited to step into the new? I am. I even started writing a new song yesterday based on Isaiah 43:19. It reads “Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

    Did you have an incredible year? I hope so. If it brought mega challenges, my prayer is 2019 brings a harvest of JOY!

    I am excited to step into a New Year!

    Expecting 2019 to be better than 2018 for both of us.

    Photo 1: Collection of photos from 2018

    I want to invite you into some fun activities in 2019!

    I am excited to host and execute a 2 Day Mentoring & Empowerment Event in May of 2019. It will be held in Columbus, Ohio and have a host of exceptional speakers. I am delighted to share a platform with those coming. I would love to see you there.

    Confident & Free Mentoring Event Info:

     

    We were not created to be insecure or drag along baggage of rejection, trauma, drama, broken relationships, or pain. We were created to be abundant and free.

     

    We are pleased to announce a two-day Confident & Free mentoring event that will bring you up to the next level of confidence and freedom! We will devote two days to empowering, supporting, and encouraging you to live up to your greatest Divine potential!

     

    You will receive tools for thriving and for getting your soul healed of past junk. You will create powerful connections with others who desire to live bold and confident. You will have ample opportunities to have your questions answered. And, you will be immersed in powerful loving prayer practice that gives you confidence based on your connection with God!

     

    Registration tonight at midnight EST. Reserve your spot… seats are going fast! I opened VIP registration already.

    Register for Confident & Free!!

    To register go here: https://www.empowered-free.com/book-online.

    Type in EarlyBird for the coupon code. You must apply the coupon for it to take effect. Instead of paying $100 for two full days, you will pay only $89.

    Also check out our New Years Day Sale! All products are 20% off. You can grab your copy of Confident & Free, I Thought I Knew What Love Was, the 7 Part Teaching Series, the Confidence Decrees.

    I Love Sales (Click Here to Shop)

    Use the Coupon Code: NewYear

    Wishing you the very best in the New Year! Blessing you. ❤️🎉🙌🏽🌍

    Warmly,

    Erin Lamb

    Founder & CEO of Lamb Enterprises LLC

    Founder & CEO of Operation God is Love

    Author of the Confident & Free Book

    Christian Dating 101

    Dating 101: This is in response to an article I read this weekend from a Christian man telling other men to just keep pursuing a woman if she seems disinterested-just try harder. Stalking (endless unwanted pursuit) is not love.

    Maybe when men pursue women have no clue what is happening. I have found this true in my life. Why? I am direct. I am not passive nor hint. I also don’t play games, nor operate with hidden motives. Men have tried playing games with me, and I only play games with little children. 🙂 or they have been very ambiguous and well I don’t do well with people who do not communicate clearly. Or they have assumed unmarried means I am on the prowl for a man and they are the cure for my singleness. Well, no. I could be married, I chose not to get married and don’t enjoy men thinking they are my savior. They are not trying to pursue to add any value, they come as pushy consumers. I don’t like pushy nor find selfishness appealing.

    Sometimes men give other men poor advice on women. Sometimes women give poor advice to other women. I truly believe God designed all relationships to be rooted in His agape love. Love that is not selfish, desperate, one sided, lustful, controlling, abusive, pushy nor stalker like. These are my top 5 for dating:

    1. Investigate why you want to pursue that person or relationship? Is it to be a blessing or to consume or meet selfish needs. People wrongly quote Paul, “Better to marry than burn in passion.” Paul was NOT encouraging marriage to cure lust. You can no more cure lust by getting married than cure alcoholism by going to a bar. Nor is it good to pursue someone to cure being lonely, avoid peer pressure, or fear of the biological clock. God gave Sarah a baby in her old age, God is not limited.

    2. Is there anything you are bringing to the table to add value? Would you be an asset or liability to someone? We can add value by asking God to refine our character. Beauty and money can fade. Godly character is priceless.

    3. Is the other person interested? This matters. If the person does not want you, leave them alone. They are not your puzzle piece or the timing is off. Continuing to pursue someone or pine over them when they do not want you can be emotionally toxic.

    4. Are you and the other person linked in purpose? They never want to leave the country and you are called to overseas missions. God is smart enough to link people headed the same direction. Sometimes people just get married off chemistry and the same beliefs, yet they are not headed towards the same destiny.

    5. Do you have compability outside loving Jesus? It takes more than the same faith to make relationships work. Are you spiritually compatible and do you mesh well outside of worship gatherings? Can you laugh together? Can you have fun together? Are you friends? Do you have anything in common? Do you have similiar vision?

    Sometimes men are taught to just go after what they want without ever considering if the woman is interested. This is not wisdom. It’s actually selfish. Just wear her down with the pursuit. Ummm no. If she wants to be with you, she won’t keep running from you. Also every unmarried women is not desperate nor sees being single as a curse. Maybe asking God, “Is this woman someone I should pursue?” Or try being a friend with no super pressure to be your wife. Or state your intentions; “I like you, would like to get to know you better.”

    Women can sometimes wrongly find identity in relationships with men or by being a mother. Some try to push this on other women. God does not tell us to find our identity in anyone other than God. Those who feel like they are nothing with someone have made an idol of man. If a woman pursues marriage to find herself, well if that man does not measure up or constantly validate her-she’s let down. God invites us to have one God. Women are also pressured to settle, have very low standards, and marry/have kids by a certain age. I think God would prefer people remain unmarried than marry out of selfishness/desperation.

    I think it would wonderful if people had as their heart intention, “I want what is God’s best for this other person. God am I your very best for them? If so, show me how to love them as you do, how to add value to their life, and be a radical blessing.” For friendships, dating, or marriage-the world would be better if the hearts of people were rooted in God love. His love pursues to be a blessing.

    What are your thoughts on dating?

    Love,

    Erin Lamb

    #dating

    Growing in the Prophetic

    Happy Growing in the Prophetic Sunday! (A Longer Post-Yet It Was Heavy On My Heart).

    I love that God speaks. I love that God LOVES to communicate with us. I also love that Paul advises us to test all prophecies, not some prophecies-ALL prophecy to see if it is of the Lord (1 Thessalonians 5:20-21).

    In order to test something, there needs to be a plumb line [a], and I believe it is the word of God and the character of God. They cannot be separated; who God is and what is revealed in God’s word.

    Scripture does not contain God, it reveals Him. The Holy Spirit is our teacher and the very best at helping us test things.

    In a digital age where anyone can get online and state they have the word or a word from the Lord, it is imperative we test it all.

    In an age where anyone can slap “Prophet” on their business card, it is imperative we test things. When the Lord spoke to me about being a prophet, I trembled. I did not want the job. Being honest. I did not tell anyone. I told no one…I was like, “Oh please don’t send me to talk to people.” Being honest-maybe why I like Moses so much. I simply started journaling what I sensed was from God and dating those things. I have 10+ years of prophetic journals. God spoke to me as a kid/young adult. It was not until the past 4-5 years other people started stating, “God has called you to be a prophet.” I did not tell them. I simply stayed in a place of “God teach me, shape me, mold me, deal with my character, teach me to love, help me to live out of intimacy with you, refine me, and lead me on the path of integrity and righteousness for your name’s sake. I want to possess and know your character.”

    From the time of God speaking, to confirmation from others was roughly 14 years. Yep. 14 years of no one speaking anything over me. I would go to meetings and no one would have a word for me. I did not mind. I did hear God say, “I am teaching you to rely on my voice and not that of others.”

    Being a prophet is not something to glory in, for we can boast of only one thing-Jesus Christ and His work. Every part of God’s Body has significant value and worth, each assignment is HIGHLY valuable. Prophets often endure interesting persecution and well humility is our best friend. I also think it is wise to ask God to refine us so what we speak truly is the voice of the Lord and not our own made up speech.

    How can we test these things? What we hear, what we see, what we think is from God? How do we know what is simply bubbling up from our soul?

    1. Be a person of the word of God. Study with Holy Spirit. “God reveal your truth, by your Spirit.” God will not violate His word. He can violate our understanding, so study is important. “God you teach me,” not “I have always been taught this, so I know.”

    2. Understanding the character of God. God is LOVE. Even the rebukes of God are aimed at loving us. He is a surgeon, not a butcher. God does what He says He will do. God is faithful. God is not flakey, rude, wishy washy, crazy, double minded, hateful, pushy, proud, hyper critical, nor does God try to manipulate, control, humiliate, or force His will on us. God let’s us choose. I think this one get’s some people (the character of God). It’s so easy to say, “God said…” and just walk away like we are the authority in people’s lives. No, we are not. If God says something, God will do it. If we say it, just to get our way, or try to hurt someone or make ourselves look good, then God is not obligated to do any of it. Before we say, “God said,” taking time to test it and wait. God is not impatient.

    God is this really you?

    God does this reflect your heart?

    God is this the right timing or setting to release this word?

    God I would like confirmation.

    Does this reflect love to the other person?

    Does this violate scripture or their free will to choose?

    Would I want this spoken over me?

    Will this word draw the person closer to Jesus? Closer to the heart and character of Jesus?

    Is this tainted with a critical spirit?

    Pride and a critical spirit can be a detriment to a prophetic person or prophet. Continual yielding our hearts to God softens us and fills us with compassion and God love. Love and pride cannot occupy the same spaces. God love pushes out pride and thinks about what is best for the other person, not self. Pride is hyper focused on self. “Well I will get tell this person like it is!” with zero concern for the recipient. God thinks about the receiver of the message. God also does not need to manipulate anyone to get His way. God has no fear in Him. Control and manipulation are fruits of fear.

    It can seem powerful and bold to just blurt out everything we think is God. Yet wisdom says, “Let me pause and see if this is really God or my flesh/soul.” The soul can evoke some feelings that make it seem like it’s on point with God and it’s not. I heard a great story from Kris Vallotton. He said he became excited in a meeting and gave this man a wonderful word. Later that evening, as he was lying on his bed, the Lord spoke to him, “Kris, that was a great word you gave that man.” Kris replied, “That was your word Lord!” God replied, “No, that was you.”

    Intimacy with God helps us to grow in the prophetic. Revelation is a byproduct of intimacy. As we abide in Jesus, rest in Jesus, listen to Jesus…we begin to release the aroma and heart of Jesus when we speak. He beckons us into His heart. True prophecy is the testimony of Jesus. It points to the very nature of Jesus, the character of Jesus, the love of Jesus. It is more than providing information, it is a relationship building tool to help us and others connect with the heart of God. Before we say, “God said,” may there be an investigation-“Is this aligned with God’s heart.”

    [a] A cord weighted with lead that is used in building to check that vertical structures are true. It is used symbolically to refer to the divine standard against which God, the builder of his people, tests and judges them. It also symbolizes the standards by which God will rebuild his people.

    The plumb-line as the measuring tool of a structure

    Zec 1:16; Zec 4:9-10 Using the plumb-line Zerubbabel will carry out his God-given task of building the temple. See also Jer 31:38-40; Zec 2:1-2

    Art: Pinterest

    Warmly,

    Erin Lamb

    Making Disciples (Lessons Learned Series Part 1)

    I love a good series. I have been focused on lessons learned lately. I believe everything is either a blessing or a lesson. There can be challenges in every area of life. The point is to learn something.

    I hope throughout this series something blesses you! God loves you with an everlasting love!!

    Mentoring and Discipling People Lessons Learned:

    It is quite impossible to mentor or disciple a person who is not present, not invested, or refuses any form of feedback.

    Imagine a teacher in a regular school. They are teaching calculus (one of my favorites) and the students never show up, never do homework, and when they give wrong answers they fight the teacher. What will they learn? Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

    I have devoted a good chunk of my youth to mentoring/discipling-actual engagement and personal investment in the lives of people. They can text me, call me, email me, have lunch, be engaged, serve/minister with me, and I have walked with many. Yet I have seen the same patterns. I do not write this with judgement, just observation. I also understand we all have lives that can be pretty full and we must prioritize. I am not targeting any person-I promise. I am sharing patterns I have seen.

    1. The person the least engaged will sometimes have the most complaints they are not getting anything out of something. I had a lady this February just go off on me because she was asked to at the bare minimum pray for others (it’s in the bible). She complained about how things were done, yet her attandance was less than 5%. How can you criticize something you don’t actively participate in or even know what is happening? Not offended, it just did not make sense. Insert “Does Not Compute”-my brain went ???? No worries she is not a FB friend.

    2. Some will desire growth without any investment. I have a stock portfolio. If I do not invest any money in those stocks, guess what? I get zero growth. Zero. I can complain, blame my financial planner, or invest something so it can be multiplied. God gives seed to the sower. Sowers invest something. This principle does not just work for money. Sow kindness, sow mercy, sow encouragement, sow information, sow opportunity, sow revelation. You gain more of what is sown.

    3. Some will desire growth until it gets challenging and then the heart will drift to something easy. Walking through the valley of the shadow of death is aborted to seek a frolic in the misty meadows. There are things about God we can only learn by walking through, being delivered through, pushing through. There are encounters with God in challenging seasons that refine our character.

    4. Feelings can sometimes cloud what God has said. I cannot tell you how many people have come and stated, “God told me you were to mentor/disciple me.” Who when they got uncomfortable, “God told me to go do something else.” I am not stating you are trapped with a mentor, church, or person for life. I am stating feelings are not a good director. I have had dozens of things in my life I wanted to quit. Maybe even more. Sometimes the leader disappointed me or was quite offensive in behavior. Yet the point was to ask God, “Where do you want me?” I had a 7 year season under one ungodly leader. I learned so much about God, who I am in God, and the power of God to sustain a person in persecution. Saul teaches you something about the power and love of God.

    5. Friends can sometimes struggle with honoring the leadership mantle you are required to wear. The most dishonor may come from “friends.” Hearing from you that something is off or the vision has expanded or we need to change course can ruffle some feathers. Stick to the mandate of Jesus. If He tells you to turn left and you lose friends-well keep going. Learning to abide in God and follow Him despite what others are thinking is wisdom. If you are leading “friends” understand that for some the friend just goes along and is supportive of everything. The leader answers to God for how they steward what He told them to do and who He assigned to them. It’s not personal; it’s Jesus.

    6. Your heart may hurt over those where you can see their amazing destiny, yet they will not grab ahold to it and invest. You can offer copious amounts of opportunity they do nothing with it. Learn to let go and ask God to send mentees who will grab every nugget and opportunity and run with it.

    7. Some may exit without even saying goodbye. Learn to hold people lightly.

    8. Bless people when they come. Bless them when they go. I am happy for people when they are aligned with who and where God called them to be. No animosity. I pray and wish people the very best. It’s not personal. It’s beautiful when people are truly following Jesus.

    9. Patience is your best friend. Learning to wait until God releases you to say or do something is powerful. The timing of Jesus was impeccable.

    10. Keep growing yourself. Keep learning. Stay a student of Holy Spirit University. If you can find a mentor, invest in that situation. Feeding others is noble, staying fed is wisdom.

    11. If you are a visionary, do not cling to everyone getting on board immediately with your vision.

    Be willing to submit the vision, get feedback, and press onward with God even if the majority is not on board.

    12. Cheer when people outgrow you! Yay God. Praise Jesus. Hallelujah. We want people dependent on God, not us. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    13. Continually ask God for His eyes, His heart for people. More than head knowledge, we need love plus God’s wisdom. God sees value in everyone. If we ask, He will provide His heart.

    14. Do your best to be a good steward, yet leave the outcome to God. Some will not grow until you leave. I have had a few instances in my life where God told me to stop mentoring a few people or once a group. Years later a few came back with positive reports. At the time I felt I wasted time. I could have been doing something else besides being taken for granted by people unwilling to learn. Years later those seeds produced something good. It’s for Jesus. Regardless of the outcome, it’s for Jesus. Peter denied Jesus. Judas betrayed Jesus. The disciples abandoned Jesus in His greatest hour of need. Jesus was perfect. You and I are not. Yet we can do our best and still end up denied, betrayed, or abanonded. Focus on stewardship and leave the outcome to God.

    15. Continually point to Jesus. What is God saying to you? Teach people to think for themselves, yet be willing to challenge wackanoodle concepts and behaviors with Holy Spirit and the word.

    16. Be willing to stand your ground even with strong personalities. God has helped me to be slow to anger and more patient. I do not yell at people nor try to push my way. I try to stay on the side of love, compassion, and meekness. This can cause people to think you are weak and a pushover. Some with dominating personalities may knowingly or unknowingly try to bully you. No! If God called you to lead, test it, and if God says no, say no. Also if you are seen as weak because you are not nasty, pushy, argumentative, angry, etc…let people think what they want. I believe you can stand your ground without being a bully, yelling, being manipulative, pushy, loud, and mean spirited. Nasty is not a fruit of the Spirit. Love is. It is possible to be firm and kind. There are moments where we need to truly be “This will not fly here,” yet Jesus was willing to die for the same people where He flipped over the tables.

    Hope this helps someone. Jesus told us to disciple people. I believe this is doing life with them, not just giving them teachings. When we do life with people it can be interesting, yet Jesus did it and modeled a lifestyle of discipleship. Who are you discipling so they can grow into their greatest potential with Jesus?

    Warmly,

    Erin Lamb

    Empowered-Free.com

    Facebook.com/erinlambauthor

    Happy Holidays!

    Practicing the habit of giving thanks is good for us. Some say gratitude is the best attitude.

    I am thankful for you! Thank you for following this blog and/or following the author page. You are appreciated.

    I hope during this season you are filled with joy and gratitude.

    I Am Sending You Love This Holiday!

    For some, the holidays are a time of stress or sadness. Some are facing challenges and uncertainty. If that’s you, I am thinking of you. You are absolutely not alone. My hopes are your soul is saturated with hope; hope there are better days ahead than behind you!

    Perspective Gained From Street Mission

    One of the things I do on the side is volunteer at the free clinic and I take out teams to feed and clothe the homeless monthly. This past weekend we encountered a man eating out of the garbage. He was so hungry. He was grateful to receive several sandwiches and a bookbag full of food/supplies. I thought to myself, “How fortunate we are, those who are not eating out of the garbage and have family or friends that would take us in during crisis.”

    I spent part of October in Cambodia serving in the slums. Children and adults live amongst the garbage and have much less than they need.

    The man we encountered in the park lost his job, was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and was living on the streets-eating out of the garbage.

    There is a quote I love, it says the following-“If we cannot be thankful for what we have, we can give thanks for what we have been spared.”

    I tell you these two stories in case you are searching for something to give thanks for this season. I certainly do not wish to minimize any struggles you may be facing.

    God cares about every detail of our lives, whether it’s homelessness, losing a loved one, joblessness, hurt, betrayal, tragedy, gross disappointment, or just loneliness.

    God cares! God sees!! God loves you!!!

    Here is a prayer and encouragement I placed on Facebook today:Encouragement & Prayer Video .

    I hope you are blessed by the 2.5 minute encouragement.

    I hope you seize the moment this holiday and enjoy it! I hope you look for someone else to bless and help. Sometimes it’s in looking outside our circumstances to another that we find greater perspective.

    This year has presented a few challenges personally and in my family. Continuing to look for others to serve has brought great perspective. I am not eating out of the garbage. I don’t have cancer nor have to sleep outside. I can thank God for what I have been spared and have compassion on those suffering.

    What are you thankful for this season? Write it down or speak it out.

    I am speaking life over you. I am declaring goodness over your life.

    May this be one of the best seasons ever! 🙂

    Be sure to stop by the Empowered & Free store this Friday for our Black Friday sale. Everything is 40% off. You don’t want to miss this. This is the last mega sale like this until 2019. Our Freedom Key collection only has a few items left. Once they sell out, those pieces may not come back. Get your holiday gifts on sale.

    Go to Empowered & Free Shop and the sale coupon is BlackFriday.

    Warmly,

    Erin Lamb

    Founder & CEO of Lamb Enterprises LLC

    Created for Wholeness!

    Part of what I do, aside from write books, is help people get healed from wounds of gross trauma, abuse, abandonment, rejection, and deep soul wounding.

    I never thought I would be doing what I do. I simply could not understand why there were so many wounded people in churches and in the world who were not getting better from popping pills or cognitive (talk) therapy or just reciting the Bible. Mostly, I wondered why some people were physically healed and others were not.

    God invited me on a several year journey into studying the soul (mind, will, and emotions). The body, soul, and spirit are connected. An injury to one can impact the others. I saw there were people with deep emotional wounds from trauma, abuse, mistreatment who were suffering greatly in their bodies.

    After years of training with Dr. Kraft and Dr. Bitcon, I embarked on teaching, training, and facilitating sessions with people to help them step into greater freedom with God.

    I have worked with people who are highly dissociative (have multiple personalities) and those so traumatized parts of their lives have been limited. I love seeing God bring freedom.

    I also do a yearly MasterClass to train others to do what I do. There are loads of traumatized and wounded people in the world who need help, freedom, and hope. I have even used these methods with children.

    God loves to heal! We were created for wholeness, not fractured living.

    You may read more here: https://www.empowered-free.com/blog/created-for-wholeness.

    If you are struggling with PTSD, wounds of trauma/abuse/abandonment/rejection-I would love to invite you to join me December 1, 2018 at 11am EST for a webinar on Freedom from Trauma!

    God wants us free!

    Register here: Sign Me Up (Freedom From Trauma Class)

    You are profoundly loved, prayed for, and appreciated! Thanks for following the author blog!

    Warmly,

    Erin Lamb

    Founder & CEO of Lamb Enterprises LLC

    Founder of Operation God is Love

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    Say No to Comparison

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    Morning Notes: Say No to Comparison. Comparison Leaves Us Feeling Superior or Inferior (It Is a Fruit of Pride).

    I was at a conference several years ago and this man who is normally quite prophetic started comparing me to the ladies with me. I had never compared myself to them, yet did not weed my soul. When people speak they sow seeds, seeds if you do not weed them do what seeds do-they grow. You may think there is nothing there, but the devil is an opportunist and will sprout a seed when it can cause issues.

    I realized it shifted my perceptions when around certain people. Instead of my normal, I will just be me, there was this tiny seed of “You need to just shrink back and let this person speak because you are under them.” The Lord rebuked me in love. He said, “Never shrink back because of who is in the room. When I tell you to speak, speak.”

    One man sowed a seed I did not weed from my soul. Weeding our soul involves aborting thoughts and words not aligned with God. We cast those thoughts or words down or out.

    Comparison is the devil’s play ground.

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    The bible is very clear when it tells us not to compare ourselves to others. Therefore if someone comes along with a “prophetic” word comparing you to someone else in a negative way or exalting you above someone else, be suspect. God deals with us as individuals, not clones. God is into creating not cloning. We have no rival and God has not given us a blanket kind of love. He love is unique and on full blast 24/7.

    Earthly parents and humans can do the comparison thing. “If only you were more like Johnny. He is so (fill in the blank.” There are entire movements to remove the unique identity of people groups. If your skin is dark, make it lighter. If your skin is pale, go get a tan because that is better. Curly hair, straighten it because that’s better. Straight hair, curl it that’s better. I am not stating if you alter something about your hair or tan you are wrong. I am stating that somewhere along the line we have been told that some things are better than others and some people are better than others. Comparison has not helped us to learn to love ourselves or anyone else.

    The bible actually tells us not to compare ourselves to other people. Comparison has two primary results; pride (we think we are better or less than), or depression (we can not measure up). I love that God loves each of us uniquely and passionately. He is not comparing us to each other. God has unlimited templates for humanity that includes variety and diversity. I am thankful we are not all the same.

    If we think of ourselves as a body, as scripture relates us, then it would be silly to have 26 hands all attached rolling around. Or 26 feet all rolling around. There would not be much progress made if we had clusters of one body part. We need diversity and different parts of the puzzle to make it work. Teamwork makes the dream work.

    The devil works overtime to bring in comparison. This person is more gifted than you, they have more than you, or less than you, compare yourself to them….go ahead and measure them up and yourself. Well, the bible tells us not to do that. First we see in part and know in part. Secondly, it does not help us abide in love. Love is not interested in competition and comparing. Love is interested in cooperation and unity. Unity is where we each bring our puzzle piece to the table and look for a fit.

    Much of our issues with rivalry, jealousy, political fighting, my church vs. your church, this stream vs. that stream, worship of certain people, putting down other people, racism, sexism, classism, etc…are rooted in comparison. Someone needs to be inferior to feel superior. It’s a fruit of the fall, a fruit of insecurity. Yes, we define right and wrong based on the word of God, yet something happens when we start believing we are better than (more valuable) or less than another person. God values us all. Jesus died for all.

    There is a solution. We repent for comparison and ask God to show us how we can work together to complete His heavenly picture and body. When we each value ourselves and others, we can come together like a symphony. The world will see God and hear His sweet melody.

    We are better together!
    Your win is my win!
    In Christ we are a Body, Team, Family!
    Each person has tremendous value!!

    Don’t compare yourself with others. Just look at your own work to see if you have done anything to be proud of. 5 You must each accept the responsibilities that are yours-Galatians 6:4.

    Join me today October 31, 2018 at noon for a FB live on comparison. Go to facebook.com/erinlambauthor. Chat with you soon.

    Warmly,

    Erin Lamb